a word of advice to all those who get rude messages via anonymous.
in all honesty, you pretty much bring it upon yourself. realize that the internet is heaven for the passive aggressive. leaving the anonymous option on only invites unwarranted remarks. i often see several rude comments, in which the person will begin to insult and quarrel with the anon.
if you’re going to leave anonymous on, then you have to be able to take all those messages with a grain of salt and just brush them off.
otherwise, turn off anonymous and save yourself the immature bickering and needless irritation. seriously, you’re only wasting your own time and energy. and i can assure you, that if you turn off anon, you’ll probably reduce the number of rude comments by 99%.
i actually have very little sympathy for those who receive rude comments and are then rude in return - you really have no one to blame but yourself.